The beginners guide to being a good Client
by Mia | 19/04/2022 | PILLOW TALK
How do I make sure the lady feels as comfortable as I do?
It all starts with your request — please make sure that it is not an impersonal copy & paste message that also contains the name of another lady, but at least partially refer to the homepage or texts of your sweetheart.
As far as possible, summarize all important data at the beginning, like this:
- The desired duration of the date
- The meeting place
- The time of day
- maybe you already know in which hotel you are.
- A short description of yourself is always good.
Many women — like everyone else — have preferences regarding their sexual partners and you certainly don’t want an awkward silence as soon as the lady enters the room. For example, a common preference is not meeting clients under the age of 30. Still others are uncomfortable with clients who “could be their dad”.
Many ladies enjoy tenderness with a cozy “bear type”, others prefer it very slim. Can you look at the tip of my nose to which of the two types I belong? Of course not. So give the independent escort lady or agency management the opportunity to find out whether you fall into the prey scheme.
The time has come: you meet!
It is best to receive the lady (if possible) in the lobby instead of in the room, as many hotels work with key cards or intercept the lady at reception and question her.
Please do not just wait for the lady to approach you, maybe she is not sure if you are the right gentleman. In most cases, she doesn’t have a photo of you, so she runs the risk of approaching the wrong gentleman. So approach her with a smile, address her by her name to be on the safe side, and offer to carry her luggage.
Every lady is happy about a little compliment right at the beginning. That breaks the ice!
So far so good.
- You are welcome to provide drinks in your room, it is best to ask in advance what the lady would like to drink.
- Give the lady a few minutes to settle in and get used to you.
- If you like, you can bring music and preferably a music box.
- I love learning about the Lord’s taste in music!
- But I always have music for every taste with me, just in case.
If no food is planned for the date, offer a few snacks or room service in a gentlemanly manner from 4 hours of booking time. This makes it even more fun to physically exert yourself.
Ideally, there is already an envelope (if you want to be sure, even with her name) on the table, in which you put her fee.
If you find time beforehand, many women would be happy to receive a small gift such as a box of chocolates or a book in which to put the envelope. A bouquet of flowers is of course also a great gift, but it requires some planning.
If you still don’t want to miss her radiant face — many women write down their favorite flowers in their sedcard.
Usually the lady would like to freshen up in the bathroom, change for you and discreetly count the fee (some prefer to do this in front of the customer so that it can be clarified directly if money is missing.) So don’t be surprised , when she briefly disappears. If you want, you can do the same afterwards, you shouldn’t have showered just before the date anyway. Washing hands and genitals is particularly important for this evening. Feel free to check out my blog Fellatiohow best to clean your penis. Freshly brushed teeth are also evidence of an attentive and well-groomed gentleman.
So, take a deep breath and exhale.
Everything has been going well so far, hasn’t it?
I know you would like to have everything right away. This is understandable, but please also try to cater to the preferences of the lady and ideally not insist on every service offered. Anal sex can be pleasurable some days and not others. Reputable ladies therefore often do not agree to some practices, but point out that it depends on the form on the day. Or maybe you’re surprisingly just too well built?
Delaying your orgasm for hours can be attractive for you, but at some point it can become uncomfortable for the lady during sexual intercourse. Give her a break in between. Massages, a drink at the bar or a bath together are a great idea to bridge the time “in between”.
You had a nice evening and want to tell about it? Forums such as Mc-escort.de and Escort-dates.com offer the opportunity to write reports about women. Please be respectful when doing so. The exact details of the date belong only to the two of you, and that’s a good thing. The evening didn’t go as planned? Please first try to talk to the lady or the agency before you write a negative report. Maybe there was a misunderstanding or the chemistry just wasn’t right. This can happen even to the “pros”. If, contrary to expectations, it didn’t work out at all, an aborted date is often better than a frantic one.
Please note that some of these wishes and ideas correspond to my personal preferences — the lady of your choice may have other ideals. So take my ideas with you, but feel free to ask the lady again. (Unless you want to meet me — then my preferences are now like an open book in front of you).
Finally, the not so nice sides of the escort.
The five no-gos when it comes to dating
1.) Not preparing the fee
Please put the fee in an unsealed envelope at the beginning of the date. I hope you understand that we too would like to feel like we are on an extremely nice, private date — only then can we convey this feeling in a credible way. Taking the money out of your wallet at the end of the date, counting it out and asking “how much do you get now” will probably make you stick in the lady’s memory. Negative.
2.) Not respecting the privacy of the lady
If the lady comes by car, give her 2–3 minutes to possibly check her make-up and change into her pumps. I have already experienced the precise study of the number plate and the interior of the car and found it to be very invasive. Since then, I’ve often asked gentlemen to simply wait at the hotel entrance.
(Please refrain from any behavior that has to do with revealing the lady’s identity. Secret video or photo recordings are also an absolute violation of her personal rights and should take place in your imagination rather than in reality.)
Unfortunately, uncut fingernails and toenails not only tear expensive stockings, but can also injure the sensitive skin on the genitals. Please consider buying a nail file as it leaves no sharp edges. If you notice nail fungus on you, you should get it treated urgently. He is highly contagious. The best thing to do is to briefly point out to the lady that you are being treated for this and — very sexy — leave your socks on.
Unfortunately, genital hygiene is still a big issue, since standing under warm water is usually not enough. Please also wash under your foreskin, as it automatically pushes itself back a little during an erection or a hand job and at the latest then it becomes apparent how careful you were. Check out my blog Fellatio for more tips on hygiene in the pubic area.
Irregularities in the skin color or the surface of the penis should definitely be examined by a doctor before the date. Many ladies refuse contact with genitals if they cannot clearly assess where such spots come from. So don’t be afraid to ask your doctor, he will certainly give the all-clear and you and the lady can enjoy the date carefree.
The rear view also needs care, especially if you want the lady to lie down during mutual oral sex or if you are planning anal games. Ideally, you make sure the view doesn’t diminish her desire. In addition, of course, there is washing your hands after going to the toilet, which is particularly important in sexual contact with one another. Unfortunately, the vagina is very sensitive to certain bacteria.
If you want to be sure that you don’t have bad breath, have bridges, dentures and crowns examined. Many people do not know that this is often the reason for bad breath.
4.) Drug use
On escort dates, illegal drugs of any kind and excessive alcohol consumption should be avoided on both sides. In the worst case, you are a complete stranger to the lady whose reactions she can hardly judge. Please don’t make her feel uncomfortable around you because you’re on drugs.
5.) Stealthing / asking for AO
Any question about AO in advance is blocked by me and my colleagues anyway. If you ask about it on the date, it can happen that the lady breaks off the date because she no longer feels safe. The attempt at stealthing (secret removal of the condom) leads me – and certainly many other women too – to breaking off the date and withholding the fee. If unprotected intercourse has already occurred, this will be reported and classified as sexual assault according to Section 177 of the Criminal Code.